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Wisdom from Wexford (December 12th)
Posted by:Lloyd Woodward--Wednesday, December 16, 2009



Here are the tips that parents shared at our second Sixth Annual Reunion/ Holiday Meeting. Once again Valerie took notes. Also, once again, the food was excellent and we even thought that we should post receipes from the meeting. So if you want to post a recipe for one of those great dishes, email Lloyd. By the way, we are doing this one last time at our Mt Lebanon meeting so if you have missed the fun you have one more opportunity and that would be this Saturday morning. Check the calendar on the right and the location finders on the left.


1. Don't enable

2. Before coming to PSST my self esteem had gotten so low and I have regained it through these meetings.

3. You need to detach to avoid becoming co-dependent.



4. Don't feel guilty that you don't like your kid sometimes (who would?).

5. It's ok to admit a mistake and recoop a mistake.

6. Get a greater knowledge of the system to alleviate your fears and distrust and then you will know better how to use it to help your situation (you get the inside scoop when you come to PSST about the system and how to use it best to your teenager's advantage.)

7. The stories that others share at PSST helps me because I can relate.

8. Read the NA text book. It is very helpful especially in trying to understand recovery.

9. Do what you think is right no matter how many professionals seem to disagree.

10. Read, listen, call and find the experts and a good book is How To Control Your Out-of-control Kid: author is Bayard.

11. Decide what part of the problem is yours and what part of the problem is your teenagers.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Rocco and Sally will be at this meeting also. Sally is busy looking for her Christmas salad recipe that has apples and dried cranberries in it. If I find it....I will make it! My #1 New Years Resolution: Get organized and file all worthwhile recipes online.

Anonymous said...

It is uncanny how much Albus Dumbledore looks like Lloyd Woodward! Since they both are protagonists I guess there is a natural resemblance.

Sally

Lloyd Woodward said...

A favorite short wisdom-story:

An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego.

The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.

The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.”

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”

The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

Anonymous said...

What a profound piece of wisdom. I have already printed it and will post a paper copy on my son's door.
It is a lesson for all to heed.

LM said...

I agree with Anonymous, "What a profound piece of wisdom." I copied this, also, and will show it to my son.

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