tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8285812026509923711.post1440575233681551461..comments2023-05-25T08:46:57.049-05:00Comments on Parent Survival Skills Training (PSST): Solutions verses problems: what do our teenagers need the most?Jennhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032767385348497272noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8285812026509923711.post-82436097119768179302011-08-10T09:32:57.973-05:002011-08-10T09:32:57.973-05:00great, Lloyd -
I am constantly working on this ve...great, Lloyd - <br />I am constantly working on this very issue; however it goes counter to my natural tendency to want to fix whatever is broken! Change is hard...but there is no question that when I step out of my comfort zone and change my way of approaching or speaking with Michael, I get good results. My problem is - I can't always remember! My intentions are always to let him figure it out, but my anxiety gets in the way at times.Maxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11596741234964077649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8285812026509923711.post-89965000366086824882011-08-08T20:40:39.804-05:002011-08-08T20:40:39.804-05:00Good Role play. We had this situation with Cisco i...Good Role play. We had this situation with Cisco in the past.<br />It is so true that when we solve all the problems for our teens .. they are left with very little confidence in their ability to do anything.<br />It seems like it has taken me forever to realize this.<br />I guess it makes me feel like a good parent to solve the problem at hand however if you look closer it is more important to hand the problem over to the teen and say "Figure it out, I know you can do it."Sallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02956567892356494093noreply@blogger.com